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Abortions On Minors without Parental Consent

Overview

 In New Mexico, minors can obtain an abortion without their parents ever being notified. While parents must give permission for their child to receive something as simple as an aspirin at school, state law removes them entirely from one of the most serious medical decisions a child can make. This not only undermines parental authority but also puts children at greater physical, emotional, and psychological risk.


My Kid, My Choice affirms: parents must be involved in all major medical decisions for their children—including abortion.

What Parents Need to KnowLegal & Constitutional RealitiesTalking Points for ParentsWhat You Can DoBottom Line

What Parents Need to Know

New Mexico Has No Parental Involvement Law

Unlike 36 other states, New Mexico does not require parental consent or notification before a minor undergoes an abortion.

This means minors can be taken for the procedure without their family’s knowledge or support.

Abortion Carries Serious Risks

 Medical risks include infection, hemorrhage, infertility, and complications in later pregnancies.
 

Emotional risks are significant for minors, with higher rates of depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts reported after abortion.
 

When parents are excluded, children face these risks alone and uninformed.

Inconsistency in Parental Rights

 Parents must sign permission slips for field trips, athletics, and basic medical treatments in schools.
 

Yet New Mexico law sidelines them completely when it comes to abortion—a life-altering medical procedure.


Legal & Constitutional Realities

Repeal of NM Parental Involvement Law (2021)

In 2021, New Mexico repealed its parental consent requirement for minors seeking abortions, making it one of the few states where a minor can obtain an abortion without parental notification or permission—even for a child as young as 13. 

2023 Laws That Shut Parents Out Further

  •  House Bill 7: Reproductive and Gender‑Affirming Health Care Freedom Act (2023)
    This law prohibits public agencies, entities, or individuals from interfering with an individual’s—including a minor’s—access to reproductive or gender-affirming healthcare. It effectively blocks parents or schools from restricting or being notified about a minor’s abortion decision.
     
  • Senate Bill 13 (2023)
    This legislation shields abortion and gender-affirming care providers and patients—including minors—from civil or criminal prosecution (including out-of-state legal action) tied to providing/receiving such services.


Together, HB 7 and SB 13 create a legal environment where parental involvement in a minor’s abortion is not just absent—it’s actively prevented by law. 

Public Health & Trafficking Risks

  • The absence of parental involvement requirements may facilitate cases of abuse or trafficking, as minors could be brought to clinics by third parties without oversight.
     
  • Lawmakers and family advocates argue that parental access serves as a critical safeguard to protect against instances of exploitation.

Federal Context

 The U.S. Supreme Court has repeatedly recognized parental rights in directing medical care for minors (Parham v. J.R., 1979). So, why is New Mexico actively fighting against it?

National Trend

 The majority of states still require some form of parental involvement for minors seeking abortion—New Mexico is an outlier. 

What Rights Do Parents Still Have?

 While New Mexico law excludes parents from abortion decisions, families still have rights that matter:


  • Right to Educate and Guide Your Child: Parents can and should talk openly with their children about sexual health, pregnancy, and family values.
     
  • Right to Provide Support: Children who feel supported at home are far more likely to confide in parents instead of seeking help elsewhere.
     
  • Right to Advocate for Policy Change: Parents can speak to legislators, school boards, and community leaders about restoring parental involvement requirements.
     
  • Right to Choose Healthcare Providers: For general medical care, parents still direct which doctors and clinics provide treatment for their children.

See NM Parental Consent Laws

Talking Points for Parents

Use these when speaking with school boards, educators, or legislators:

Talking Point #1

 “If parents must give permission for Tylenol, they should be involved in abortion decisions.” 

Talking Point #2

 “No minor should face life-changing medical risks without the guidance and support of their parents.” 

Talking Point #3

 “New Mexico’s lack of parental involvement laws is extreme compared to most of the country.” 

Talking Point #4

 “Protecting kids means making sure parents are not left in the dark.” 

What You Can Do

Stay Informed

 Know that in New Mexico, minors can access abortion without parental consent. Share this fact with other parents. 

Educate Your Children

 Have open conversations about sexual health, relationships, and the value of life so they come to you first. 

Advocate for Policy Change

 Support legislation that restores parental involvement requirements in abortion decisions. 

Provide Community Support

 Encourage schools, churches, and local organizations to provide alternatives and resources for young people facing unplanned pregnancies. 

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Bottom Line

New Mexico has stripped parents of their right to be involved in one of the most serious decisions a child can face. This places children at risk and undermines family trust.


Because when it comes to major medical decisions—My Kid. My Choice.

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